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Lifestyle Changes for Genital Herpes
- The negative self-image that you may have after being diagnosed.
- Anger, stress, anxiety, and depression that you may feel.
Communicate with Your Partner
- Talk to your partner about your diagnosis. He or she will need to be tested for genital herpes and get treatment if needed. Your doctor may be able to recommend ways to talk about a difficult topic like genital herpes.
- Before you have sex with a new partner, talk to him or her about your diagnosis.
- Share any information about genital herpes and ways to avoid spreading the virus. To learn more about herpes, your partner should also get counseling from his or her doctor.
Modify Your Sexual Activities
- Always use a latex condom. But, keep in mind that you can still spread genital herpes even if you use a condom. This is because the virus can exist on skin not covered by the condom.
- Genital herpes can affect your sexual spontaneity. So, you will need to plan ahead. If you have an outbreak, do not have sex.
- Get eight or more hours of sleep each night.
- Eat a sensible, well-balanced diet.
- Try to minimize stress at work and at home.
- Do not touch any visible sores or blisters. Make sure not to spread the virus to other parts of your body, such as your mouth or your eyes. Wash your hands thoroughly with soap and warm water if you do touch a sore or blister.
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- Reviewer: Brian Randall, MD
- Review Date: 02/2013
- Update Date: 05/11/2013